Would a 26 year old guy ever really like a 32 year old woman? If yes, what would she have to have going for her? What would be some fears that a guy would have about dating a woman that was 6 years older than him?
Yes my brother in law was 27 and his wife was 32 when they got married. I just think that they may feel pressure to have kids sooner than later. But I am sure those things are discussed beforehand. Usually when a mature person (not some 16 yr old) person dates someone older they understand what that may entail.
Sure a 26 yo can like a 32 yo. As long as they have similar interests, goals, and maturity levels, who cares about age?
He may be concerned that she’s more sexually experienced, or her biological clock is ticking, or she wants marriage and a serious relationship right away. The first step is always conversation
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I could only do it if we made it explicitly clear that it’s only about sex…and that It’s none of her business what I do when we are not together….and if we do go out to eat on occasion, or to a movie etc, I WILL ORDER FOR THE BOTH OF US, and then we will split the bill in half.
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I usually like girls who are my age, sometimes a little younger….but from time to time I might get a little captivated by an older woman.
I have an appreciation for older women who have their stuff together(career/finances) and still maintained a high level of physical fitness (almost like a health nut).
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Yes my brother in law was 27 and his wife was 32 when they got married. I just think that they may feel pressure to have kids sooner than later. But I am sure those things are discussed beforehand. Usually when a mature person (not some 16 yr old) person dates someone older they understand what that may entail.
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I am 6 years older than my husband. He wasn’t really looking for an older woman, but then I don’t look my age. We met on the internet. I wanted to start as friends because I knew he was younger than me and I wasn’t sure how I felt about it. We were both coming out of 20+ year marriages and dating after that length of time is challenging in its own way. We started emailing and soon talking on the phone. When we met in person for the first time, I was thinking "wow, you’re really in trouble this time". He was handsome and tall and one of the nicest men I had ever met. Lucky for me, he was very attracted to me as well and we had the most wonderful date. We started seeing one another regular and recently were married.
I think he likes the fact that I am a bit more mature and sophisticated than his ex. I am so not her. We communicate with one another and we know what we want in life. We respect each other very much. I showed my husband this question and maybe he’ll grace you with an answer from his perspective.
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@ 32, she is probably at the point where she is only looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage and kids. It would be a negative if she is 32 and has no carrier. Otherwise, I do not see any issues with just a 6 year difference. Remember, it is more the personality that counts than age.
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It is possible they hit it off and it works all the time. The only problem is this: If a 19 year old hooks up with a 27 year old, that 27 year old woman has experienced life and has set values and ideals. She may have a lot in common with the 19 year old man at the time. The problem is that ten years later, she will be the same person but he could be someone totally different.
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