I am 24, and she is 28. I met her at a local gym as she was doing pullups and pushups. She is very fit and beautiful and we have dated for about 2 weeks. She is however a police officer (mainly a mounted officer, the ones who ride on horses and patrol that way). Should I be concerned about dating a woman in this profession?? So far she is very sexy, but a little demanding and bossy. Any advice would be appreciated.

Concerned in what way? Like she might handcuff you or something lol?
Anyway, you should date her and think of her as a woman, not as a police officer. Officers are also girlfriends, wives, moms when they are off duty. Try to mentally frame your relationship without thinking of her profession. You say she’s a little demanding and bossy? OK, well, she might be that if she was a store manager, or a teacher, or ….whatever. That’s probably just her personality… which is maybe why law enforcement was her career choice. If you’re all good with her personality, no problem. Just don’t have any "professional" interactions with her hahaha.

19 Responses to “Should I be concerned about dating a woman who is a police officer?”

  1. BLACK HYPNOTIST XX says:

    just don’t show her your stash
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  2. Dan says:

    Get the meth lab out of the basement and you’ll be fine.
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  3. Toasty G says:

    MOUNTED officer ehh?????????
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  4. Peed says:

    yes you should be, since i’m reading this now :S
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  5. wHiTe_WoLf777 says:

    Lol no, you shouldn’t be concerned, not unless you’re doing anything illegal! :P

    Police women are just as datable as any other women out there, they’re just different in personality. Most of them know what they want in a guy, and yours sounds like she does.

    Just do the best you can, and if it doesn’t work out for either of you, then at least try to remain friends.
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  6. Angela says:

    it rlly doesnt matter the outward of someone wat matters is wats on the inside
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  7. sunshines says:

    i wouldn’t be too too concerned to date her. if ‘something’ was there before you found out she’s a cop, it shouldnt change it. and as they say: "if your right you have no need to defend yourself, if you’re wrong you have no right to!" so pretty much if you are guilty or ashamed of maybe a habit you have, then well its up to you. but i think thats really sweet to date a cop. you’d always feel safe :)
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  8. No Short Cuts... says:

    first off i wont marry an older woman..because they age faster mentaly and perhaps phisicly too so yea….and this is the typ ei dont like…if its not yours either..just tell her why..make sure she dont go trigger happy Lol..just fooling..just be safe and let her down soft..if not then make her dump you..by changing your personality she doesnt like..but dont give her a reason to arrest you dude lol.
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  9. xxSammixx says:

    Why would there be any reason for you to be concerned? She just sounds like she can stand up for herself when needed and can get what she wants when she wants it.
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  10. GaryD says:

    if you like bossy chicks, go for it.
    if not, dump her, because it will get worse
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  11. Bill says:

    Don’t do drugs or anything illegal around her till you find out what she’s into
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  12. LDee says:

    Concerned in what way? Like she might handcuff you or something lol?
    Anyway, you should date her and think of her as a woman, not as a police officer. Officers are also girlfriends, wives, moms when they are off duty. Try to mentally frame your relationship without thinking of her profession. You say she’s a little demanding and bossy? OK, well, she might be that if she was a store manager, or a teacher, or ….whatever. That’s probably just her personality… which is maybe why law enforcement was her career choice. If you’re all good with her personality, no problem. Just don’t have any "professional" interactions with her hahaha.
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  13. Will says:

    what are you concerned about? the way she will treat you? or the worry of her not coming home? you need to be more specific. maybe you should talk to her about these concerns and see what she says. good luck
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  14. kahraa says:

    Wouldn’t worry about it unless you are into illegal activities. Are you a gangster or thug? You found sexy, smart, employed and fit but you focus on little demanding and bossy. Are you high? Whats wrong with you???
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  15. sasukerocks says:

    Well if you like her then there shouldnt be a problem. If you are worried about your manliness then you shouldnt worry because if she already talks to you then obviously she likes you. And if shes bossy its only because thats the only way she know to be ( she is after all a police office) lol. Dont sweat it this should intrigue you because you have met a beautifel and self sufficient woman.
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  16. Thomas says:

    DEAR GOOGLE75:
    The only 2 things that should concern you are if you are doing anything illegal and she finds out about it she is obligated to report you and arrest you.
    the other thing is unless you are uncomfortable with being with a dominate woman who is demeaning and bossy and you are able to deal with it you should be OK.
    just remember her profession is very demanding and swhe doesn’t have a lot of free time like other people. not to mentionher profession is very dangerous, she could be killed or injuried, could you deal with that? it takes a special person to get involved with a police officer.
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  17. snake says:

    dont ever do anything nice for a pig, you cant go wrong with that. you should date her to destroy her.
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  18. Massina says:

    no waasaay un less u do drugs then go for it!
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