I sometimes hear about men not wanting to continue dating women who have sex "too soon."

Do you feel this way? Why or why not?

Some of the biggest sluts I’ve known were the ones who waited the longest before having sex, so you can’t always go by that.

11 Responses to “Men: Do you really care about how soon a woman has sex with you after you begin dating?”

  1. Eiliat says:

    There’s no such thing as "too soon" for me, but there is such a thing as too long.
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  2. Allison says:

    I’m not a man, but you should probably have sex before you date…just incase he sucks in bed
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  3. sharks_n_water says:

    Some men are girly-p*ssies and that is why they don’t want to have sex too soon.
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  4. Life=Answers says:

    Yes I think too soon is an option. You should make the guy work for it I.E. Make him fall in love with you and let him know you’re not one who gives it away. The reason it is important because most likely he will stay with you longer if you wait. If you just do it then he will assume that is the way you are with everyone. Unless there is a past with you and this person. I hope this helps. Trust me just make him wait. =)
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  5. bickd99 says:

    What is to soon. to me a month is to long but a few days is perfect. this is the 2000′s not the 1700′s and most relationships today start as sex based and morph into other things
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  6. guideroh says:

    if the sex was good and i am single i would continue dating (maybe only 4 sex).if i would be in a relationship and had sex with a girl on a first date i would have acchieved my goal and i would not date anymore.
    i hope i could clear some things bout the man’s braine…:P
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  7. BRYAN C says:

    Tough one to answer.

    I didn’t have a rule but I’ve learned my wife was a firm believer in the 3rd date rule. You asked her out on the 3rd date and if she said ‘yes’ it wasn’t just for dinner.
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  8. malibusportblue says:

    it all goes on how comfortable u r with that person. There are men who don’t feel comfortable with a girl right away. and then there are men who don’t care whatever. like i said it all goes on how comfortable u feel with a girl!!!!!!!
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  9. Shea H says:

    lol
    well, if a girl pretty much just gave me an easy access. Then I would just think, how many times has she done this? How easy is she?
    It would make me want to do it, then run away, but I wouldnt do it cause Im not that kind of guy.

    With me, I would like my girl firned to wait as long as possible till I break out and show the love.

    I would say, too soon is anywhere from first met, to…. 6 months?

    I know a lot of people do it sooner, but then thats why their are so many un wanted pregnancies and bad relationships.

    You want the guy to show you that he loves you in other big ways than sex, before you start doing it. Then that would mean much more to you, when the both of you do it.
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  10. Roger says:

    Some of the biggest sluts I’ve known were the ones who waited the longest before having sex, so you can’t always go by that.
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  11. edward k says:

    3RD DATE RULE
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