Comments on: Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman’s Perspective : How to Cure Yourself of Nice-Guy Syndrome

By: Graham

Graham — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:51:26 +0000

As a [url=http://chick-magnet.net/blog/recovering-from-nice-guy-syndrome]recovering Nice Guy[/url], I can relate to the stuff in the video. Thanks for posting it.

By: wjrasmussen666

wjrasmussen666 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

Jerks show there …
Jerks show there lack of confidence all the time. It’s just the masses are pretty stupid and assume too much and then fall for it. Jerks haven’t gotten over their past and still have to display it for others or themselves to see. Read Nathan Branden.

By: victshot

victshot — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

The reasons why …
The reasons why jerks win is because: They’re confident and go after what they want without showing weakness. In all things, the jerk is still the jerk and doesn’t express the Alpha male approach. Because at the end you don’t want to be the guy who’s beating off the other guy, because he’s a smooth talker and is winning over the jerk’s girl.

By: SpartanElite095

SpartanElite095 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

I’m not going to …
I’m not going to change who I am. If girls are really that way then fine, let them go be with the who make them cry.

By: ronaldbel1

ronaldbel1 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

I agree with you …
I agree with you gig16 one must learn how to take care about oneself first.

By: Gwhanos

Gwhanos — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

@prettyboy1970

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@prettyboy1970

I’m only 21 and am already acting like those jerk types. . . . and it works like a charm!

By: replica456

replica456 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

i ll tell u y jerks …
i ll tell u y jerks get chicks……..1. they are strongly determined to get the chick. 2.they give a to every thing which makes them super confident… and no 3 . they are not scared of the chicks father brother boyfriend . and most imp reason they fake a lot ….u would never know when they fake ….if u have this qualities the chick is all yours

By: RNRDOLL

RNRDOLL — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

you see the light …
you see the light bro. You dont have to be an to win her over. All you need to do is remember a girls attraction is tied to her emotions and feelings she gets. She wants to be stimulated by your presence and wants a guy that’s virile..not a dick. You can never ‘buy’ her attraction towards you by doing all these nice things..it doesn’t carry value because you’re just giving it to her, instead of her earning it.

By: bbieber92

bbieber92 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

a person who just …
a person who just cares about himself and no one else? no one

By: bbieber92

bbieber92 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:07 +0000

okay, she has a …
okay, she has a good point, girls do NOT want assholes, simpley, there jerks no one wants a jerk, onli slutty girls want the asshole. BUT they also dnt want a PUSSY! there sooo annoying and clingy. just a middle guy, a nice guy who will stand there grounds and say wat he thinks,. i agree with this woman except for ONE thing at the end. she stated. The more you care about urself the more others will care about u. thats completely false, yes u need to have self confidence but who wants to be wit

By: ATD909

ATD909 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

24/m/CA
She’s cute. …
24/m/CA
She’s cute.
I co-sign opkj926′s statement.

By: mrshutter77

mrshutter77 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

I agree brother!
I agree brother!

By: mrshutter77

mrshutter77 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

What a lair, she is …
What a lair, she is lying about everything like most women do to make men more confused. Women are attracted to jerks and will follow jerks, period! Plus she has no business being a dating coach, look at how young and inexperienced she is. Plus I would never go out with a white girl—all of them are False Rape Accusation cases that can be nightmare. Just like how you should never talk to women at work, all of them all Lawsuits waiting to happen.

By: airhab

airhab — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

Treat a Girl like …
Treat a Girl like dirt

And she’ll stick to you like mud

By: anon94707

anon94707 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

fair enough, …
fair enough, that’s what I’m saying. I’m responding to an a notion that there is a sterotype at all. Nice guy finish just like anyone else. It’s just that if anyone thinks they deserve any special treatment for “finishing last”…that’s the problem. Self proclaimed nice guys like to think they deserve otherwise, when in reality they deserve just as much or as little as any. We are all human.

By: starplane64

starplane64 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

that’s a stereotype …
that’s a stereotype,mate.Nice guys differ just like everyone else,it’s not like every nice person is going end up alone or a saint,Y’know?

By: istrikeher

istrikeher — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

if the dont …
if the dont wana do on saturday… you smack that hoe left and right till she comes with you then you have some passionate sex

By: JDubs878

JDubs878 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

This is why women …
This is why women are so in the head.

With men, its pretty easy to figure out. Most guys just want a nice girl that treats them decent and respects them and will his brains out.

With girls, everything has to be just so in order for her to like you. You have to treat her nice, but not too nice. Care about her, but don’t care too much. Be confident, but not cocky etc

Basically you have to get just the right balance for her to want to you. Why do they have to play so many games?

By: bunbot05

bunbot05 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

doode but girls …
doode but girls will always be like that, they are females and we will never understand them.. their emotional is like a volume. it triggers high and low. they dont have a choice. ours is like a on/off switch. we have a choice.

By: dm121984

dm121984 — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:48:06 +0000

I don’t get the …
I don’t get the example given; i.e. A woman you know phones you up crying – “don’t be a jerk but value your time”….so, what? Keep the call short?