Cure nice-guy syndrome by establishing your own schedule and build a sense of self-worth that keeps you from being used. Get out of the “friend trap” in a relationship with advice from a female dating coach in this free video on dating tips for guys.
Expert: Jessica Claire
Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com
Bio: Jessica Claire is the host of her own midnight hour talk radio show, where she gives call in advice on dating.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller
Duration : 0:1:20
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Going to be honest …
Going to be honest for a second here:
I am glad I do not have this traditional American culture,, because, no offense to Americans, but the girls in other countries are not total and princesses who require so much. You may think the other girls are less modern and old school, but I am glad they are because I dig the girl respecting the man and the man taking care of the girl without all this extra drama etc
Boiled down: A women should please the man and the man should protect and provide
These clips are …
These clips are ExpertVillage’s most watched AND IT’S ABSOLUTELY BAFFLING.
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She’s cute. …
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She’s cute.
I co-sign opkj926’s statement.
I agree brother!
I agree brother!
What a lair, she is …
What a lair, she is lying about everything like most women do to make men more confused. Women are attracted to jerks and will follow jerks, period! Plus she has no business being a dating coach, look at how young and inexperienced she is. Plus I would never go out with a white girl—all of them are False Rape Accusation cases that can be nightmare. Just like how you should never talk to women at work, all of them all Lawsuits waiting to happen.
Treat a Girl like …
Treat a Girl like dirt
And she’ll stick to you like mud
fair enough, …
fair enough, that’s what I’m saying. I’m responding to an a notion that there is a sterotype at all. Nice guy finish just like anyone else. It’s just that if anyone thinks they deserve any special treatment for “finishing last”…that’s the problem. Self proclaimed nice guys like to think they deserve otherwise, when in reality they deserve just as much or as little as any. We are all human.
that’s a stereotype …
that’s a stereotype,mate.Nice guys differ just like everyone else,it’s not like every nice person is going end up alone or a saint,Y’know?
if the dont …
if the dont wana do on saturday… you smack that hoe left and right till she comes with you then you have some passionate sex
This is why women …
This is why women are so in the head.
With men, its pretty easy to figure out. Most guys just want a nice girl that treats them decent and respects them and will his brains out.
With girls, everything has to be just so in order for her to like you. You have to treat her nice, but not too nice. Care about her, but don’t care too much. Be confident, but not cocky etc
Basically you have to get just the right balance for her to want to you. Why do they have to play so many games?
doode but girls …
doode but girls will always be like that, they are females and we will never understand them.. their emotional is like a volume. it triggers high and low. they dont have a choice. ours is like a on/off switch. we have a choice.
I don’t get the …
I don’t get the example given; i.e. A woman you know phones you up crying – “don’t be a jerk but value your time”….so, what? Keep the call short?
sorry but selling …
sorry but selling hope to nice guys is like shooting fish in a barrel. the truth is most nice guys are whiners who think they deserve something (aka to get laid) for being nice. and ironically that is not being nice at all. i think frankly the whole idea of calling any of it “nice” is the problem to start with. “loser” may not be accurate either but it’s closer than “nice”. nice is just NICE, period.
What if your just …
What if your just naturally a nice guy? I mean I give people all the time, but if they have a problem or if they need something, I try to be there.
I’m a jerk and I …
I’m a jerk and I can assure you that my life is more fun and more exciting than ever!
You’re right. …
You’re right. Jerks do lack confidence, but they go after what they want. If a person can display lack of jerk and more confidence to go after what they want, It’s more likely they’ll get the girl.
Jerks show there …
Jerks show there lack of confidence all the time. It’s just the masses are pretty stupid and assume too much and then fall for it. Jerks haven’t gotten over their past and still have to display it for others or themselves to see. Read Nathan Branden.
The reasons why …
The reasons why jerks win is because: They’re confident and go after what they want without showing weakness. In all things, the jerk is still the jerk and doesn’t express the Alpha male approach. Because at the end you don’t want to be the guy who’s beating off the other guy, because he’s a smooth talker and is winning over the jerk’s girl.
I’m not going to …
I’m not going to change who I am. If girls are really that way then fine, let them go be with the who make them cry.
I agree with you …
I agree with you gig16 one must learn how to take care about oneself first.
@prettyboy1970
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@prettyboy1970
I’m only 21 and am already acting like those jerk types. . . . and it works like a charm!
i ll tell u y jerks …
i ll tell u y jerks get chicks……..1. they are strongly determined to get the chick. 2.they give a to every thing which makes them super confident… and no 3 . they are not scared of the chicks father brother boyfriend . and most imp reason they fake a lot ….u would never know when they fake ….if u have this qualities the chick is all yours
you see the light …
you see the light bro. You dont have to be an to win her over. All you need to do is remember a girls attraction is tied to her emotions and feelings she gets. She wants to be stimulated by your presence and wants a guy that’s virile..not a dick. You can never ‘buy’ her attraction towards you by doing all these nice things..it doesn’t carry value because you’re just giving it to her, instead of her earning it.
a person who just …
a person who just cares about himself and no one else? no one
okay, she has a …
okay, she has a good point, girls do NOT want assholes, simpley, there jerks no one wants a jerk, onli slutty girls want the asshole. BUT they also dnt want a PUSSY! there sooo annoying and clingy. just a middle guy, a nice guy who will stand there grounds and say wat he thinks,. i agree with this woman except for ONE thing at the end. she stated. The more you care about urself the more others will care about u. thats completely false, yes u need to have self confidence but who wants to be wit
As a [url=http://chick-magnet.net/blog/recovering-from-nice-guy-syndrome]recovering Nice Guy[/url], I can relate to the stuff in the video. Thanks for posting it.